
I'm James Hansen, a specialist addictions counsellor and ADHD life coach – but long before I got here, I was struggling in ways I couldn't explain.There was constant noise in my head, and to escape it, I started abusing substances from a very young age. Things spiralled, and by 15, I was kicked out of my family home.By 20, I arrived at rehab weighing 8.5 stone, carrying everything I owned in a single black bag.Recovery wasn't easy. And it wasn't quick.But it did come, and it changed the direction of my life.Today, I'm over 25 years clean and sober.That experience led me into this work.I trained in addiction counselling and spent the next two decades supporting people through treatment, rehabilitation, and long-term recovery. I’ve worked in clinics, prisons, and specialist services.

Years later, another piece of the puzzle fell into place.My daughter was born weighing just 1lb, 14 oz. We were asked three times to turn off life support.Three times, we said no.All we knew was that our baby was fighting for survival.From May to October, she stayed in hospital.When we finally brought her home, it was oxygen 24 hours a day for two years.Every cold meant three to five days back in hospital.I'd never known pain like it in my life.She survived. She’s here. And at the age of eight, my miracle child was diagnosed with ADHD.Supporting her pushed me deep into the study of ADHD.And the further I went, the more familiar it all started to feel.I began to recognise something I hadn’t expected.Myself.In my late 30s, I was diagnosed with ADHD, and suddenly, my life started to make sense.That combination is what shapes my work today.Lived experience. Professional training. And a deep understanding of how often ADHD and addiction sit side by side, and how easily one can be missed when the other is treated in isolation.My focus is on seeing the full picture, and supporting people at the points where clarity, structure, and steadiness matter most.
These are the areas I focus on.
Business owners, leaders, and working professionals
For those in demanding roles, where ADHD or addiction are beginning to spill beyond work.
Referred by a clinic or treatment service
Specialist ADHD and addiction support delivered alongside existing care and recovery services.
Teenagers, young adults and families
Support for teenagers and young adults navigating ADHD, emotional regulation, and early addictive patterns, often with family involvement.
Access to Work support
ADHD and neurodivergence support delivered through Access to Work funding and workplace assessments.
The video below shares a bit more about my story and why I do this work
The discussion is with Dr Phil Anderton and John Reynolds as part of a televised series, ADHD Beyond the Label.
There is no fixed structure for this work.People arrive here at very different points, with different histories, needs, and levels of support already in place. Because of that, the work is shaped around the individual rather than delivered as a set programme.Any support is guided by the context of the referral, the recommendations of the service involved, and what feels appropriate for the person at that stage.
If you’ve been referred and are considering support, the next step is usually a conversation.
You can book a call below to talk things through and see whether working together feels right.If you’d prefer not to book a call at this stage, you can also leave your details using the form below and I’ll be in touch.
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This support is for people who:
Are in work and experiencing challenges linked to ADHD
Have been awarded Access to Work funding or advised to seek support
Are looking for one-to-one, practical support rather than a long-term programme
This work is designed to fit alongside real responsibilities and working lives.
This support is for people who:
ADHD-related challenges at work and in daily life
Emotional regulation and impulse control
Structure, consistency, and accountability
Navigating pressure, stress, and responsibility
Practical strategies that can be applied immediately
The emphasis is on realistic progress, not quick fixes.
An initial consultation
A client assessment session
A series of one-to-one sessions agreed in line with your Access to Work grant
Access to Work typically awards a set amount of funding. The number of sessions we book is guided by the agreed level of funding and the approved support.Sessions are delivered in line with Access to Work guidance and reviewed as the work progresses.
If you’ve been awarded Access to Work funding and are looking for a suitable provider, the next step is to book an introductory conversation.This gives us space to discuss your situation, confirm suitability, and agree the most appropriate way forward.
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If you're reading this, you're probably worried about your child.I understand. Because I was that child.I didn't have the words for what was going on inside my head. I couldn't explain it to anyone because I didn't understand it myself. All I knew was that I felt different. That school didn't work for me, no matter how hard I tried. That I was living in a world I didn't understand, and it didn't understand me either.The teachers didn't know what to do with me. I wanted to learn. I was there, I was trying. But the teaching style, the content, the way things were delivered... none of it was landing. I wasn't connecting.And when you're a kid who can't explain why everything feels so hard, you start to believe something is wrong with you.So I ran from it.Played truant.Started mixing with the wrong crowd. And out of sheer frustration, just wanting to quieten what was going on in my head, I turned to substances from a young age.My mum didn't understand what was happening. How could she? I didn't understand it myself. All she could see was the behaviour. The chaos. The harm it was causing at home. And eventually, she made the hardest decision any parent could make. She kicked me out.I was 15.I don't blame her for that. I was drowning, and I was pulling everyone down with me. But it was never my intention to cause harm. It never was.By 20, I was in a hostel in Brick Lane. Eight and a half stone. Everything I owned in a black bag. Looking out of a window, wondering if it was time to end it all.Life back then was different. There wasn't the understanding. There weren't the avenues of support. And nobody could join the dots between what was going on in my head and the way I was coping with it. By the time I found help, I had already lost years of my life.We've come a long way since then.There's more awareness now, more support. But young people are still falling through the cracks. And when things start to spiral, families often feel like they're carrying it alone.I know that feeling. I watched my mum carry it. And it's a weight no one should have to bear without help.That's why I do this work now.A lot of the parents who reach out to me have already tried other avenues. They've spoken to the GP, the school, different services.They've done their best to be heard.But the conversations go nowhere, or the help offered doesn't match what's really happening at home.If any of that sounds familiar, I imagine you're exhausted.Exhausted from holding it together while watching something unfold that you can't seem to stop.Exhausted from feeling like no one quite gets it.And if that's where you are right now, I want you to know something.You don't have to have all the answers before you reach out.You don't have to be certain about what's happening, or whether I'm the right person to help.You just have to be willing to have a conversation.That's all the first step is.We talk. We work out what's going on. We figure out what kind of support makes sense next – for your child, and for you too. And even if we don't end up working together, you'll walk away with clarity on the best next steps.And one more thing: I work closely with clinics, treatment services, and rehab providers across the UK. If someone needs a higher level of support, I have clear referral pathways, and I'll help you understand the options and move quickly.But it all starts with a conversation.
Leave your details below and I’ll get back to you.
P.S. If you'd like to know more about my story and the work I do before getting in touch, watch the video below.
It's a conversation I had with Dr Phil Anderton and John Reynolds on ADHD Beyond the Label. I talk openly about my journey and what led me to this work. It might give you a clearer sense of whether I'm the right person to support your family.


I’ve worked with hundreds of people living with ADHD, addiction, or both, many of whom carry significant responsibility at work.They’re exceptional at building, creating, and pushing things forward, but it nearly always comes at a cost.And that cost, unmanaged, can look like:
Working longer hours than anyone else, yet never feeling truly in control
Coming home burnt out and emotionally shut off from the people who need them most
Living on the edge of burnout, masking it with caffeine, adrenaline, or sheer willpower
Emotional highs and lows that spill into relationships, decisions, and self-worth
Numbing the noise with whatever’s closest — work, screens, alcohol, drugs, shopping, gambling, even porn
ADHD and addiction overlap far more than most people realise.Not coincidentally.Often, as a way of regulating the chaos.After years of working in this space, the pattern is always familiar. And it usually lands in one of four places:1) ADHD on its own
2) Addiction on its own
3) Both running side by side4) Or ADHD that was never diagnosed and has been quietly driving addictive behaviour in the backgroundThis is where things tend to break down.Most ADHD specialists don’t work with addiction. And many addiction specialists don’t understand ADHD.So one side gets addressed while the other keeps pulling the strings.People do the work.
They commit.
They try to change.And still end up stuck in the same loop, confused about why progress never holds.
Why I Do This Work
I’ve spent most of my life helping people find their way back from burnout, addiction, and chaos because I’ve lived through all three.

Studied Addiction Counselling at the University of Bath
Former programme manager in residential rehab
Worked within prisons supporting recovery and rehabilitation
Led therapy teams and supervised other counsellors
Now an ADHD Life Coach and Specialist Addictions Counsellor, working exclusively with business owners, founders and leaders
25 years clean and sober, after rehab, recovery, and rebuilding life piece by piece
Father and stepfather
Went through a divorce after 14 years and found lasting love with my wife
Watched my own father lose his life to alcoholism
Diagnosed with ADHD at 37 — the moment everything finally made sense
My diagnosis changed everything and nothing at the same time.Finally, an explanation — but still the same brain.It was the moment I stopped blaming myself for the chaos of the past — and saw that the future was mine to rebuild.But understanding it didn’t quiet the noise or undo the habits. It just made me see them more clearly.And in that clarity, I began to see the link between my drive and my destruction. Between achievement and exhaustion. Why I could build a business yet lose myself in the process.In the end, what made the difference was simple.I’d spent years studying human behaviour and helping others rebuild their lives — but turning that knowledge inward was something else entirely. It forced me to live what I’d been teaching.Now I help others break that same cycle.
What I don’t do
I don’t promise quick wins or empty motivation.
I don’t help you “manage” ADHD/addiction by pushing harder or adding more structure to the chaos.
I don’t work with anyone who isn’t ready to be honest about where they are and what’s really going on.
What I do
Help you uncover what’s driving the constant push — the patterns and pressure that leave you running on empty.
Help you step out of performance mode and rebuild your energy, focus and relationships.
Bring 25 years of counselling experience and lived recovery to help you build change that lasts.
People carrying high levels of responsibility who:
Want to feel focused and steady again without burning out to keep things moving.
Are ready to replace short-term fixes with lasting change, and finally understand what drives their stress, distraction or addiction.
Want their relationships — with their partner, their kids and themselves — to get the same energy, patience and care they give their business.
If you’re looking for a quick boost or a short-term fix, this won’t be for you.But if you’re ready to face the truth, stop running on fumes, and build something that finally lasts — this is where it starts.
There are two ways of working with me:
Remote
Weekly one hour sessions over video, giving you consistent support and clarity each week.£2,795
Combined
Video sessions plus two half day workplace/home visits for deeper insight into how your environment shapes the way you work and feel.£6,995
Both run over 12 weeks.
Book a free 30-minute call.
On it, we will:
Get to know each other and talk about what is really happening day to day.
See whether this work feels like a good fit for you.
Talk through what the next steps could look like if it feels aligned for us both.
I only take on a small number of clients I’m confident I can help.If it turns out we’re not a fit, that’s okay — it just means the timing or situation isn’t right.If we are, you’ll know exactly what to expect.
P.S. This work is personal. If you’re considering taking the next step, it can help to have a sense of the person you’d be working with.
Below is a recent podcast conversation where I share my own story and what led me to this work.The conversation is with Dr Phil Anderton and John Reynolds for ADHD Beyond the Label, a televised interview series.